Hey there! Congratulation on your anniversary! And a warm and happy valentine’s day. Since it’s the month of February, I thought that writing this article would be most appropriate for anyone celebrating their anniversary and/or valentine’s day or anyone looking to give their wives/girlfriend a special and romantic day.
Without taking too much of your time, let get started…
1.BE A GENTLEMAN
I’m very certain that you’re already a gentleman or else you wouldn’t be reading this article in the first place. What I’m asking you to do for this day is to be EXTRA by doing the things that you wouldn’t normally do on a daily basis. For example:
Give her more attention than usual.
Wake-up early morning to make her favorite breakfast in bed.
Tell her how beautiful she looks and how well she smells(even if it’s the opposite which I’m sure it’s not).
Open her door in every occasion
Carry her, so she doesn’t step on mud
And you go to eat out, order her meal
The idea is to make her feel like the queen that she already is and to make her feel appreciated for all her hard work. So please, don’t let her lift a finger.
2.TAKE HER TO THE PLACE YOU FIRST MET HER
One of the most romantic thing you can do especially on you anniversary is to visit the place you first met or the place you had your first date. Nothing’s more romantic than bringing out those old memories of how your love story began.
3.SURPRISE SPECIAL DELIVERY
Send her a special delivery, especially if she’s at work. This allows her co-workers to notice that someone’s so in-love her. But instead of the regular chocolate and/or flower delivery, bring her a special performer to sing her favorite love song. Doing this will definitely make her feel special, and what a great way to make yourself be remembered by her peers and co-workers.
If neither of you work on that day, I’ll suggest you take her out during lunchtime at a romantic stroll at either an outdoor shopping center or botanical garden where two strangers would approach her with flowers, chocolate, and a love song.
PS/ Be sure to take her to a public place to allow people to see how loved and special she is because this is kinda the whole idea. Avoid restaurant or retail stores just because it may be overcrowding.
4.GIVE OR SEND HER A BEAUTIFUL EVENING GOWN WITH SOME ACCESSORIES
Just like opening Christmas present really early in the morning is a great tradition, giving her a gorgeous evening gown and some accessories at sunset makes for a very romantic moment.
This part can be very tricky. You want to make sure that she’ll love it enough to wear it during dinner time unless she tells you in advance that she already bought herself something for the evening. Communication is very important especially if you want to make this stage right.
So be sure to pay very close attention before this day comes, and do your best to know the things that she’s been dying to have in advance and then surprise her.
Another option is to give her something that you would love to see her wear. In this case, tell her in advance what you plan to buy without showing it to her. Be sure to pick a very elegant dress that accentuates all her good assets.
5.TAKE HER TO A ROMANTIC DINNER
So It’s finally dark, you gave her that gorgeous dress, and now it’s time to head to a very romantic restaurant. The place you decide to take her depends on both of your preferences. Remember, an upscale restaurant doesn’t always make for a romantic dinner even though most women would probably prefer that option. Be sure to ask her about her most romantic type of restaurant or dinner and you may be surprised to know about her ideal romantic dinner.
Here are some of the most surprising types dates/dinners that some women find super romantic:
Real Italian Pizzeria
Parked car (usually looking at a great view up on the hill)
Home (make it a nice romantic dinner with candles and flower, dimmed light, romantic background music and champagne). Be sure to surprise her on that. So make sure she’s not home until dinner’s ready.
6.GO FOR A NICE WALK OR A MOVIE AFTER DINNER
After you’ve gone to dinner, don’t just rush her home. Take her to a nice walk if it’s not too cold outside or if she’s not too tired. This part is totally optional but can be essential. It gives you the chance to talk about your day or any other things too.
Be sure to take her to a place where it’s just you and her. This will allow you to complete the next step.
7.TURN ON THE MUSIC
This is my most favorite part in this entire step. It’s just a great way to finish strong. Turn on the music, get on your knees (or courtesy) and ask her to a slow dance. This is usually the time to express your feelings toward each other. You can make this moment happen at home, outside of home at a place with a romantic feel or at any place where it’s just the two of you. Be sure it’s a safe and an authorized place. You don’t want this moment to end into a disaster.
Your music choice depends on your story and her favorite song. The song can vary between:
Your first dance (if married)
Your couple song
Her favorite love song
Your own song ( great time to sing to her if you can sing. The song doesn’t have to be an original song. Your voice alone can add the spark)
If you still don’t have any idea on what to play here are a few ideas:
ALL OF ME by John Legend
GOD GAVE ME YOU
MY ALL by Maria Carey
8.TELL HER HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO YOU IN HER NATIVE LANGUAGE (IF SHE’S BILINGUAL)
While you’re still slow dancing and few minutes into your song, go ahead and tell her how much you love her and how she means to you. To add the romance, say it in her native language if she’s bilingual. Be sure to memorize it just to allow yourself to look into her eyes rather than on paper. (It’s ok if you can’t memorize just as long as she can understand you). So please, work on pronunciation and speak slowly.
THE REST IS TOTALLY UP TO YOU
After you’ve had this amazing experience, the rest is totally up to you. Always remember to be yourself and to be confident. Women love men with confidence. Remember, do not let anything or anyone upset you or discourage you no matter what happens. Always rise above every argument with humility. Trust me, it’s sexy. Avoid being in a bad mood at all cost. It will kill the mood.
Turn off your phone if you can and be sure to enjoy every single moment and be proud of all your effort, because you doing this shows how amazing and unique you are.
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Until next time!